Our Recommendations
Call and ask to speak to a manager.
Call between meal hours and not during peak breakfast, lunch or dinner times — ideally between 2 and 4 p.m. — when restaurants aren’t as busy and a manager or chef can speak with you. If neither is available, ask for the appropriate name and find out the best time to call back. Be ready with your list of questions. Here are some suggestions for what to ask:Are you willing to accommodate me in your restaurant? If yes, provide them with as much information about your food allergies or special diets as possible. Make sure they understand how serious an allergic reaction can be.
Provide the manager or chef with a list of your food allergies, and tell
them what you usually eat when you dine out. The chef should be able
to create a menu item to fit your needs.
Discuss cooking preparation. Sautéed or baked items minimize the
use of common cooking equipment and shared utensils. Go through
the list of ingredients being used in your dish, including garnishes, to
ensure there are no hidden allergens.
Once you have both agreed on your meal, write it down and take this
information with you to the restaurant. Tell the manager or chef when
you plan on dining to make sure he or she will be there.
Remind the restaurant manager, chef and wait staff that you have
food allergies. Present your chef card and ask that it be shown to the
chef.
Since you called ahead to let the restaurant know about your allergy,
ask if there is a notification of your allergy or special diet on your
reservation. If yes, it shows that your information was properly
communicated. If not, this could be a red flag, but don’t give up. Ask
them to inform the manager that you would like to talk to him or her
when you’re seated.
Ask the waiter what is in your dish and how it’s prepared. Make sure
your server understands what you are allergic to; explain that cross-
contact must be avoided.
Even if the server tells you they’re aware of your dietary request, still
speak with the manager or the chef to ensure the right information is
getting to the kitchen. Present the written menu option you discussed
when you called. If the manager seems genuinely concerned, go over
your request in detail. Ask if the manager can personally handle your
food so that there are no mistakes.
Keep it simple. Ordering basic fare — like a baked potato, broiled
chicken or steamed vegetables — can be the safest way to go.
Avoid fried foods unless you know they are prepared safely. The grill
and frying oil are both rife with cross-contact.
Be careful when ordering desserts, often a source of hidden allergens.
Since many restaurants order their desserts from specialty shops, the
staff may not be able to provide a list of ingredients. If in doubt, wait
and have a safe dessert at home.
When you arrive at your table, check the cleanliness of the table and
chairs. It’s essential that your seating area is clean and sanitized,
particularly if you have ever had a reaction from touching your
allergen.
Servers should not prepare any part of your meal. Server areas can
be very busy with many servers working on a variety of orders at the
same time. Ladles and tongs used for serving soups and salad
ingredients can be inadvertently placed back with the wrong food. This
will cause your meal to come in contact with other foods to which you
may be allergic.
When your meal is delivered, make sure the person who delivers it is
someone you’ve spoken with — your server, a manager or the chef. If
not, ask for a manager to double-check your order. This person may
have inadvertently picked up the wrong food.
Your plate should be delivered separately. Many restaurants teach the
technique of “plate stacking,” where the plates are balanced on the
server’s arm and delivered to the table. You do not want your plate
next to another guest’s plate that might contain an allergen.
Confirm your order. Have them describe how your meal was prepared
and listen for anything unusual. Did they mention an ingredient or
cooking technique that was not discussed earlier?
Look at your plate. Are there any garnishes? Is the item cooked
correctly? If anything looks wrong, ask questions. You need to assess
the situation and make the final decision. If anything is wrong and you
feel uncomfortable, send the food back.
If you do have a good experience at a restaurant, tell the staff about it
and be a repeat customer. Reward excellent service and build a
relationship.